Everyone asks if the Laws of Moses are still relevant for today

                    My love for those rightly disposed for everlasting life.

 My love for those rightly disposed for everlasting life.

Makes me live my life in peace, and free from strife.

My love for all destined to survive the time of the end

Motivates me to live this life, with much hope, longing for the new world to begin.

Let's all show Christ's love to everyone, plus loving Jah forever. 

Showing concern for the beautiful earth we call home for what it's worth, waiting for the wonderful time for the end of those who are ruining the earth

I am learning this in Roanoke. I don't need money or sex as much as I need companionship - coffee, breakfast, and conversation with someone who is waiting for the new world to begin, and taking care of this beautiful earth while we wait.

       Everyone wants to have a mate.

You want to walk up to them, and ask for a date.

When doing it right, you will always get a welcome mat, cause everyone digs a cool cat.

Some corny birds think that they can throw the rap, but they look so surprised when she gives him a slap.

When doing it right, you will always get a welcome mat, cause everyone digs a cool cat.

With a dog in the act, looking for a potential mate, with a lustful gaze. With a dog in the act, it will set dating back to the cave man days.

Da Da Da Dot do da!

Yeah!

If you have been following my music "Rightly Disposed" on Jd's Digitals, you heard me sing Acts 13:48 over and over.

"All those who were rightly disposed for everlasting life became believers."

       What does that mean for finding a wife?

Most dating advice in 2026 says "find your vibe" or "find your type." The Bible says find your disposition.

*Rightly disposed means:*

1. *You want peace, not drama.* A rightly disposed woman does not love arguing on Facebook. She loves quiet, peaceful mornings.

2. *You love this earth, because God made it.* She loves nature, animals, simple beauty - not just malls and money. She can enjoy a walk in Roanoke without needing to be spoiled.

3. *You are waiting for the new world, but living rightly NOW.* She doesn't say "life is short, let's sin." She says "life is short, let's live clean waiting for Jehovah's Kingdom."

That's what I mean when I sing "Rightly Disposed." I am not looking for the hottest photo on Instagram. I'm looking for a disposition.

Yesterday a woman told me I was no fun because I wouldn't take her money. A rightly disposed woman would have said I was MORE fun because I have boundaries.

This week in Roanoke I am going to Burger King not to meet anyone special, but to sit, have coffee, have breakfast, have conversation with my Creator and watch this beautiful world. If a woman is rightly disposed, she will love that. She won't need a $100 gift card to have fun.

Are you rightly disposed? Leave a comment and tell me what you are doing today to prepare for everlasting life.

*The Series So Far:*

Day 1: The Laws of Moses on Marriage - Why God Protects Homes

Day 2: Why I Said No to Being Spoiled - Respect > Money

Day 3: You are here - Rightly Disposed

Tomorrow Day 4: How to Talk to a Woman Without Being Corny (The Cool Cat Conversation)

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      Everyone wants to have a mate.

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Von Bro' 

Yesterday I learned a big lesson about finding a capable wife in 2026.

 

Yesterday I learned a big lesson about finding a capable wife in 2026.

A woman told me "I love spoiling and financially supporting" and that "nothing fun will happen" if I don't want money.

A few years ago I would have said yes. Today I said: "I appreciate that but I don't take advantage of women. I hope you can understand that?"

That is the Cool Cat Method vs the Corny Bird Method.

*The Wrong Way (Corny Bird Method):*

Take the money. Get spoiled. Think you found love because someone offers to pay your bills. Then one day she needs "help with her mom in El Paso" or needs you to buy a gift card. Now you are trapped. That is not love, that is a transaction. Moses called that being entangled.

*The Right Way (Cool Cat Method):*

A capable wife is not looking to buy you, and you are not looking to buy her. Proverbs 31 says she is trustworthy, she works with willing hands, she speaks with wisdom. She wants respect, not a receipt.

Moses' law on marriage was about protection - protecting the home from strangers, from debt, from being unequally yoked. A real home is built on companionship: coffee, breakfast, and conversation. Not spoiling.

In Roanoke I am learning: Respect gets the welcome mat. If a person cannot respect your "no money" boundary, they will not respect your home.

I am waiting for a woman who is rightly disposed for everlasting life - peaceful, loves Jah, loves this beautiful earth while we wait for the new world to begin. She will not offer to spoil me. She will offer to sit with me.

Have you ever been offered the spoiling trap? How did you handle it? Comment below.

*Follow the series:*

Day 1: The Laws of Moses on Marriage

Day 2: You are here

Day 3 Tomorrow: What "Rightly Disposed" Really Means for Dating

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In my last post I said I'm in search of a Capable Wife.

 

In my last post I said I'm in search of a Capable Wife. A lot of people asked me what I mean.

 

I'm in search of a Capable Wife. A lot of people asked me what I mean.

I mean Proverbs 31:10-31. This is the standard. Here is my verse-by-verse breakdown of what I'm actually looking for.

*10 - Her Value is Rare*

A capable wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.

She is not common. Her worth is character, not just looks.

_Proverbs 18:22, Proverbs 12:4_

*11 - She Can Be Trusted*

The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.

She brings peace, not anxiety.

_Proverbs 20:6-7, Genesis 39:4-6_

*12 - She is Consistent*

She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.

Not mood-based love. All the days.

_Ruth 1:16-17, Romans 12:9_

*13-14 - She is a Hard Worker*

She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. Like merchant ships, she brings food from afar.

Resourceful, not entitled.

_Proverbs 14:1, 2 Thessalonians 3:10_

*15 - She is Diligent*

She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household.

She puts her house first.

_Luke 12:42, Joshua 24:15_

*16-18 - She is Smart with Money*

She considers a field and buys it... her lamp does not go out at night.

She can handle real life business.

_Proverbs 16:3, Matthew 25:14-30_

*19-20 - She is Skilled and Compassionate*to 

She puts her hands to the distaff... She opens her hand to the poor.

Strong hands, soft heart.

_Proverbs 19:17, Acts 9:39_

*21-22 - She is Prepared*

She is not afraid of snow for her household... She makes bed coverings.

Her family is ready because she prepared.

_Proverbs 27:23, Proverbs 21:5_

*23 - She Makes Her Husband Better*

Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders.

A capable wife lifts her man up.

_Proverbs 12:4, Ecclesiastes 4:9_

*24-25 - She is Strong and Not Afraid of the Future*

Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.

Her confidence is from God.

_1 Peter 3:3-4, Philippians 4:6-7_

*26 - She is Wise with Her Words*

She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

Wise, not gossip. Kind and truthful.

_Proverbs 15:1, Colossians 4:6_

*27 - She Leads Her Home*

She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

She is a leader, not a guest in her own house.

_1 Timothy 5:8, Titus 2:4-5_

*28-29 - She is Praised at Home First*

Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.

The real award is in her own home.

_Ephesians 6:1-3, Proverbs 17:6_

*30-31 - The Secret*

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Looks fade. Fearing God is what makes her capable. That's the one I want.

_Proverbs 9:10, Ecclesiastes 12:13_

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*So I ask you:*

If you are a woman who fears the Lord and you understood this breakdown — which verse describes you the most?

Leave it in the comments. I read every one.

- Von Bro' 

In Search of a Capable Wife!

 

1. Why would anyone in their right mind create such a blog site?

2. What would be the purpose of such a blog site?

3. What did God mean in Genesis, when he said, it was not good for the man to be alone?

4. Why does a man need to look so hard for the one female person to complete him? 

Why Would Anyone In Their Right Mind Create Such A Blog?*

First of all, I never said I was in my right mind. I'm not a psychologist, and I don't know if this is what I should be doing at this point in my life. I've been thinking about it for a long time and finally said, what the heck!

If I can't find her, why not make it easier for her to find me? As far as I know, she may not be as far from me as I think.

*What Would Be The Purpose Of Such A Blog Site?*

The purpose is obvious. When someone is lost and family is looking for them, and they WANT to be found, they leave clues — breadcrumbs.

On this blog, I will leave as many relationship breadcrumbs as I can, so the woman who is right for me can follow them and realize I'm the one she's been looking for, and she is the one I've been looking for.

*What Did God Mean In Genesis When He Said, It Was Not Good For The Man To Be Alone?*

This should be self-evident to any Bible student. When God told Adam to name all the animals, that desire for a mate was already there. As Adam observed them to give them a fitting name, he realized he was the only one without a mate.

And when he received his mate from God, he was so overjoyed he broke into poetry.

*Why Does A Man Need To Look So Hard For The One Woman To Complete Him?*

Mostly, because we are going about it the wrong way. No matter how spiritual we think we are, this Satan-ruled world projects its erroneous ways on us.

We have to ask: Is my preference for a mate really what _I_ want, or is it what outside forces influenced me to want? Most of us aren't sure.

I thought a thick, juicy woman was my favorite. But after a failed marriage, I learned body type is not the only thing to look for in a mate. Word!

Von Bro'